Hill chose to write about her both strange and enlightening experience
She began the article with this:
“The People You May Know feature is notorious for its uncanny ability to recognize who you associate with in real life. It has mystified and disconcerted Facebook users by showing them an old boss, a one-night-stand, or someone they just ran into on the street,” said Hill.
Shes says Facebook can suggest around 160 people to her every day!
Sometimes it would suggest the same people over and over, but through out the course of one winter, it offered more than 1400 people she may have known.
According to Hill around 200 of them (Or about 15%) were people she actually knew or recognized, the rest were strangers.via:Gettyimages
So she was suggested around 1200 strangers over the course of only 3 months! People she thought she had nothing to do with at all until one name among the bunch stood out to her...
The name of an older Ohio woman, Rebecca Porter. The face held no significance for Hill, and they had no mutual friends, but the name Porter was all too familiar.
What happened next can only be described as strange...
“My biological grandfather is a man I’ve never met, with the last name Porter, who abandoned my father when he was a baby. My father was adopted by a man whose last name was Hill, and he didn’t find out about his biological father until adulthood,” said Hill.via:Gettyimages
Hill knew that the Porter family lived in Idaho, and thought there might be some connection.
“Growing up half a country away, in Florida, I’d known these blood relatives were out there, but there was no reason to think I would ever meet them,” she saidvia:Gettyimages
All that thinking made her somewhat curious, so Hill sent Porter a Private Message
Hill asked Porter if she had any relation to her biological grandfather. The answer? YES!via:Gettyimages
They soon figured out that Rebecca Porter was Kashmir Hill's aunt by marriage!
Out of over all of Facebook and over 1400 friend suggestions, Hill found the woman who was married to her biological grandfather's brother!
They had no idea!via:Gettyimages
Hill immediately got talking to Porter over the phone
“I didn’t know about you. I don’t understand how Facebook made the connection,” Porter told Hill.
Hill said that, though she enjoyed the conversation with her newly discovered family member, the whole experience left her feeling a little disturbed.
Wouldn't you feel the same!?via:Gettyimages
So HOW did facebook make such a strange connection?
Hill said: "I was grateful that Facebook had given me the chance to talk to an unknown relation, but awed and disconcerted by its apparent omniscience,"
Although Hill’s father had met Porter’s husband once after her grandmother’s funeral, there was no Facebook presence for either of them, and they had only ever talked over email.via:Gettyimages
In fact, they couldn't find any connection between them through Facebook AT ALL
So, of course, Hill was anxious to know more about the system that somehow linked her with her lost family, and reached out to Facebook for information. Unfortunately, all she got in return was a list of "privacy reasons" as to why they couldn't give her any of the information she was after.
A dead end!?via:Gettyimages
When you stop to think about it, we don't know anything about that feature of Facebook!
The only information Facebook has really released around the subject was this: “We are constantly iterating on the algorithm that we use to determine the Suggestions section of the home page. We do not share details about the algorithm itself,” Said by Facebooks then Cheif Privacy Offer, Chris Kelly, to Adweek.via:Gettyimages
Does that change how YOU look at social media?
It may not be any different for you, but when Hill sees the People You May KNow tab now, her perspective has totally changed.
she says: “I’m unnerved not just by seeing the names of the people I know offline, but by all the seeming strangers on the list,” said Hill. “How many of them are truly strangers, I wonder—and how many are connected to me in ways I’m unaware of. They are not people I know, but are they people I should know?”via:Gettyimages
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