Cheating on a relationship is one of the biggest betrayals any person could commit considering the intimacy and trust that is supposedly between two people in a relationship. The damages caused by it are even worse than the act itself since they're long-lasting and cut really deep.
People do crazy things when they get emotional, that's why you shouldn't act surprised if your partner unleashes the dragon on you after finding out what you did, it's simply a translation of the pain and suffering you made them go through.
“Ex cheated on me and dumped me for her. Years later they are married with 2 kids and we reconnect, have an affair. I convince him to leave his wife for me, which he does. Then I dumped him as soon as the divorce was final. Shitty, I know. Now that I’m older, I feel pretty bad for doing that to his kids.”
“Ex was cheating on me so I fucked her mom and got her parents divorced.”
“My ex was a narcissistic asshole who gaslighted me. When I left I poured laxatives in every single bottle of booze he had and gave his secret stash of cocaine away. This was in Australia where neither of those things are cheap.”
“I called my adopted ex an orphan while drunk. She was killed in a car crash two weeks later. It was the last thing I said to her.”
“My long distance ex asked if I could mail back his favorite T-shirts that he had given to me. He cheated on me, so I was planning on just throwing them away, but instead I mailed them back. Two were torn to shreds and one had ‘I’M A CHEATER’ written on the back. He deserved it. Don’t fucking cheat on me.”
“I banged her younger sister. Yes she deserved it, she cheated on me. And her sister was WAY better in bed.”
“When I found out she cheated on me, I updated to her status and said ‘I’m a whore who likes to cheat with X’ and changed her password. Then I changed her password to her email. She called me and pleaded to bring it down since she was friends with religious members from her church. I laughed and told that bitch to go to church.”
“I slapped my ex across the face in a crowded lecture hall at university. He had dumped me three days before when I told him about a positive pregnancy test. It later turned out to be a false positive, but I was nineteen and scared as hell, and he had not picked up the phone or answered any texts when I was trying to reach him. I found him in the lecture and told him that I needed to talk to him urgently, and he refused to come and speak with me and told me that it was nothing to do with him at this point. So, I slapped him, resoundingly, in front of five hundred people. And stormed off. I’m not proud of having resorted to violence, and I would never do that now, but at the time it seemed pretty justified.”
“Put all the nasty comments he made online in a PDF file and sent it to his parents. You dump me via email? I’ll make sure your parents will give you hell. Saw him years later, he said he was scared by me and thought I was the Devil.”
“I knew my first wife was cheating on me when she asked me if her boyfriend could sleep over. The next day I got with a girl that was hot after me, and was kinky for anal (she told me that’s what she wanted when chasing me). Afterwards, I didn’t clean up, went home, and asked for a BJ from the wife. She accommodated, and when she took it in her mouth, the look on her face was enough to make us even.”
“Cheated on me while I was in basic training. Then claimed it was ‘rape’ (later to find out it wasn’t). Months later on summer leave I get a call from a robot, ‘An inmate from (local county jail) is trying to contact you, press 1 to accept.’ I thought it was one of those prank dial things so I wanted to play along. Turns out it was her. My number is the only number she memorized. She had a party at her parents’ place while they where out and it got busted for drugs and other various things. She was crying and telling me how much bail was obviously hinting on me bailing her out so her parents wouldn’t find out (right away). I told her ‘dahahaam. That sucks bruh’ and hung up. She wasted her one phone call. I don’t know the exact terminology but found out she got pinned for cocaine possession, MIP, and a few other alcohol/minor-related felonies.”
“I stole the dog and cut her fucking tires. Oreo was my gift to her for her birthday, but I decided he was mine when she decided to fuck my friend.”
“I dated this man that I worked with for three months and we were completely infatuated with each other. It was a whirlwind of a romance and I was so naive in the game of love that I believed everything…until one day at work, under the wiper on my car, I saw there was an envelope that was addressed with my first name and inside, there was a wedding invitation for him and his fiancée. I was unknowingly a mistress and I decided to take matters into my own hands. I took the name from the invitation, found her number in his phone, called her to discuss, and we ended up making dinner reservations with him as our server. The look on his face when he walked up to the table satisfied me more than he ever did.”
“When I found out my GF cheated on me, I didn’t do anything right away because we had plans to see a concert out of province coming up. I took her to the concert excused myself to the bathroom and just left her there. She got the message.”
“My ex-wife got pregnant with another man about 3-4 months into our ‘separation,’ announced her pregnancy on our company’s intranet (we both worked at the same company at the time) even though she was planning on quitting, refused to honor parts of our divorce settlement she originally agreed on and signed, and then tried to run off on all her debts. I had collectors harassing me and my family looking for her. Apparently, she changed her number and she had no known address. Fortunately, I was able to get back at her. I was able to convince her to sell the house she originally wanted to keep as per the divorce settlement, but later backed out on. During this process, our realtor used a digital signature platform so we didn’t have to see one another. Anytime you sign a document on this platform, it leaves a trail with your IP address. My ex-wife had signed every document using a computer from the house her baby daddy lives in. I then used a (free) site online that can trace where an IP address originates, it gave me approximate GPS coordinates. I went on Google Maps and found the street and once I knew the street, I could search through my state’s property search to identify all owners on that street. All I had to do was find the name of her boyfriend and basically found where she was living. The next time the collection agencies called, I gave them her new address. Her getting sued for not paying her bills is the least she deserves.”
“I once made the mistake of sleeping with a roommate. It lasted for about 3 months before I decided that I wanted to take things to the next level. He treated me like a girlfriend in many ways already so I thought this would be no big deal. I was wrong. He told me that he didn’t want to date me because I wasn’t ‘trophy wife material’ and he didn’t plan on being that successful (enough to score a Twife at least) until he was 30. He then proceeded to take a girl’s virginity, knock her up, ask her to get an abortion and whine about it to me while asking for a booty call. I dumped a giant vial of fine purple glitter all over his bed and laundry/washing machine. The man hated glitter, what can I say? No Regrets.”
“Was dating this girl and she decided she needed to date this other guy that had just become single. So he banged her and left her and a couple months later she was back crying about what a mistake she made breaking up with me. At the time I was home on break from college out of state. I told her to come back to school with me and we would see what happened. She drove her little hunk of junk the 3-hour drive to my place the next state over. The car barely made it. Couldn’t get over about 50 on the Interstate. I banged her all night long and generally treated her like a whore. She wouldn’t say no to anything as she was going to earn my trust back. Very late in the night she asked me if I thought it would work out this time. I said, ‘fuck no. You dumped me to fuck another guy and think we are going to act like it didn’t happen? You suck in bed anyway.’ I pretend to go to sleep and she slipped out in the middle of the night and I have not seen or heard from her in 29 years. As an 18-year-old guy who was hurt I felt like a conquering hero. As a 47-year-old husband and father I think I was a scumbag.”
“I feel ashamed of this now, as I know this wasn’t the right response. I was in a terrible relationship for three years with an abusive arse and I ignored so many red flags it was my own fault. I was 13-16 in this relationship and I wasn’t ready for sex. He was two years older and kept pushing the issue. At the end, I found out he had been cheating on me for three months with a mutual ‘friend.’ We were in a big group of friends and one night we had all met up and she was pissed that he wouldn’t leave me and she told me with a sneer in front of everyone. All those times I met up with them they were laughing behind my back. I thank her for it now, but back then, at 16, I lost it. Long story short, I broke his goddamn nose.”
“My ex wife was a Jehovah’s Witness and she basically cheated on me with her relative. I had the choice to break up with her and hide the truth from her family but decided to make it public. She got excommunicated and her family doesn’t talk to her. I don’t regret it because I feel like I’ve done her a favor. Clearly she didn’t want to be a Jehovah’s Witness anymore. Double bonus, they stopped knocking on our door.”
“I head-butted him in a dislocated rib. This was about a month after he raped me, so I don’t feel bad about it at all.”
“In the 1990s a girl I wanted to be with spurned me because she ‘doesn’t date lame-ass white boys’ and she hooked up with a street thug who is trying to get a gangsta rap album. I thought I was in love, but I hated her so much I wished the worst for her. Fast forward to 2012, and she contacts me via Facebook looking to ‘Catch up’ and see what I’m up to. I’m married and have a family so I kind of got over her ass, but when I got that message I saw red….Her profile was a few days old and I sensed she was only letting me know so much. So I used one of my alternate profiles and searched around until I found her main. She was living with a man in his sixties while trying to raise up four kids all with different baby-daddies. I led her on in the conversations and screenshotted the whole thing before emailing the screens to her ‘Sugardaddy,’ letting him see how she was looking to start over with me, that she was sorry she didn’t give me a proper chance….He…decided to leave her and the four hellions she had by moving out of the trailer they were crowded in and moving into his own place….She was pissed off; I mean, I could see the little nuclear cloud all the way from my house.”
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